I made native soup with Catfish when I was still at my Dad’s and I wanted to eat the head of fish but my Dad came and said “Fish head is for men” and asked me me to keep it for him. I waited until he went outside and went back to the kitchen to add the head to my food and ate it joyously. When he came back, he was mute, I was mute. Life went on because I get coconut head.